Today, I will read you something that a listener sent me, so thank you, Margaret.
I absolutely love this, and I'm going to read it just as it was presented to me because I think it's so inspirational about not giving up and also just it's about tenacity.
"Hi, Peter. I ran across this post on Twitter and had to share some good points. Didn't know any of this about the film Rocky. In 1975, Sylvester Stallone wrote the screenplay for Rocky. He shopped the script to every producer and studio in Hollywood but was repeatedly rejected.
Eventually, one production company, Chartoff-Winkler Productions, expressed interest, but there was one condition…
They didn't want Stallone to play Rocky. They wanted a "more marketable actor" for the leading role.
In fact, they were so desperate for Stallone to *not* play Rocky that they kept offering him increasing large sums of money to go away.
"It went up to $360,000," Stallone said, "to go away to get off my lawn, boy."
Stallo...
Today we're going to talk about a humbling subject: feelings and surrender.
It encourages us to suppress our egos just enough. If you can, think of that game of limbo to get under the bar.
Can you suppress your ego enough to get to the lesson that the universe is trying to teach you on the other side?
And I think that that is so interesting as an actor because I always feel like a character is teaching me, but for the character to teach me, I need to suppress who I am a little bit. See what they are saying, and so allowing that character to come to me instead of putting myself on that character.
The idea of that character allowing and suppressing that ego just enough so that that character can speak through you so that you can truly be a vessel for the character.
The Language Of Letting Go
"Surrendering is a highly personal and spiritual experience."
And I just mentioned that because I think that surrendering to the universe is, is a very personal thing.
Some people get on t...
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About Juan Carlos:
Juan Carlos Diaz is an actor born and raised in New York City. He began acting at the age of six in various school plays and musicals while in private school.
While still in high school, he began working at the Puerto Rican Traveling Theatre under the direction of Miriam Colon Valle, which led to his first Equity production at the age of 17 at New Media Repertory Theatre, where he immediately became part of the children's theatre company there.
Juan Carlos holds a BA in theatre from Bard College, where he studied under the tutelage of JoAnne Akalaitis and Liz Smith.
His work can be seen in BULL, HALSTON, LAW & ORDER, LAW & ORDER SVU, The Last Thing He Wanted (with ANNE HATHAWAY), and many other TV shows and films.
I've always been a good listener so I can figure out the homework later and take notes.
I went for the audition, and then this went on for about two years. I would even get emails that he's pinned ...
I have a choice. I can get involved with the turmoil and, you know, continue to make it more miserable for others and for myself. Or I can stand for peace and reason and strength within myself.
It's really about keeping the focus on yourself during the chaotic times, especially when there's so much chaos around us right now.
"Letting go of chaos. No good work comes from unrest. Unrest, fear, anger, or sadness may motivate us. These feelings are sometimes intended to compel action. But our best work emerges after these feelings have been replaced by peace."
When I am too hot in my response or my reaction, I'm just getting into the problem and trying to control it.
A response is a reaction with a pause and a thought behind it. And really, what I'm talking about there is when I have given myself a cushion of peace.
Because I don't do my best thinking, I don't make my best choices when deeply embroiled in fear, anger, sadness, or some other...
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I take pride in this podcast that I just let you see me for who I am, a flawed human being.
Cause that's what artists and characters are.
I try to use these little mistakes I make as teaching tools on how to be kinder to ourselves.
"I confess that I had a burning desire to be excellent but no faith that I could be. Martha said to me very quietly, there is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action.
And because there is only you. And because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique, and if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium, and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly to keep the channel open.
You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urg...
Yeah. Shit, we don't have one strike going on. We now got two.
So, what are we going to do about it? Well, I think the first thing I'm just going to do is I'm just going to share with you my feelings about it.
I do think this strike is necessary. AI is terrifying for the actor, and I am so proud and honored to be a part of a union that recognizes that.
Having your image so that a company just can use it, however they want to use it is just unacceptable.
I don't think it's worth it.
So what do we do now?
The three pillars are the three things that I really think you want to focus on.
Two of them in particular right now.
One, you're acting training. This is not the time to slide.
This is the time to ensure you are still going to the gym.
This is the time to work out your actor body.
I have the Acting Business Bootcamp Strike Challenge that I gave all of my Weekly Accountability Group actors.
It's a monologue workout to keep you going as an actor.
I'm ask...
I'm just going to talk about scarcity.
What is scarcity thinking?
It's not enough. There's not enough.
There isn't enough work out there.
There isn't any work out there.
Jealousy is a type of scarcity thinking because it is not acknowledging that there is enough for everyone.
And this kind of thinking as an actor really only hurts you.
The phrase is, you take the poison and wait for somebody else to die.
And, you know, it's the same thing with scarcity thinking.
First of all, it's not true. Scarcity thinking is based in your ego thought. It's not based in universal thought. And I always talk about kind of like turning your internal dial to universe as opposed to ego.
The thing about me and my ego is that I know my ego.
Even though you think by the word ego, it would want everything good for me. I have learned over many years of studying this work and practicing it that it's actually quite the opposite.
If I need to choose betw...
Today we are going to talk about celebrating.
"Take time to celebrate."
Now the funny thing is that I rarely take time to celebrate, and I need to keep doing it more and more and more because it is in the times of celebration, and it's in our resting times that we are getting prepared to do and accomplish more.
But it's so important to reward ourselves. It's one of the things I talk about in time management to reward ourselves for all our hard work.
"Celebrate your successes, your growth, your accomplishments. Celebrate you. And who you are because through celebration, we are truly loving the self. We are truly celebrating who we are."
And isn't that what we are putting out to the business? We want to put out, "Hey, I've got this great product. It's me!"
I mean, isn't that what it's all about? It's show business. Let me show you me.
It's important to have joy.
"For too long, we have been too hard on ourselves. Others have spilled...
Okay, now what? We graduated, and there's a fucking writer's strike, and a pending actors strike. Wait, this is not what I showed up for.
I've been a member of SAG AFTRA for over 30 years and a working actress for over 30 years.
And let me tell you something, I've been through a lot of strikes, and you know what the greatest thing about them is? They end.
There is a lot you can do right now, and that's getting ready.
The number one thing I recommend to actors getting out of drama school is learning "the Language of the Agents and the Casting Directors."
If you think you learned it in drama school, I am here to tell you that, no, you did not. Chances are that you did not learn what the industry was like from the agents and the casting director's points of view.
Some of the things to know, though, is that yes, you are the newbies on the block, and you are fresh meat. Everybody's all excited about you, but this is the thing you need to know is there have been thousands of...
Letting the Past Hold You Back.
"Many people come to me and say they cannot enjoy today because of something that happened in the past.
Because they did not do something or do it in a certain way in the past, they cannot live a full life today. Because they no longer have something they had in the past they cannot enjoy today. Because they were hurt in the past, they will not accept love now. Because something unpleasant happened when they did something once, they are sure it will happen again today. Because they once did something that they are sorry for, they are sure there are bad people around them forever. Because once someone did something to them, it is now all that other person's fault their life is not where they want it to be today. Because they became angry over a situation in the past, they will hold on to that self, self-righteousness. Because of some very old experience where they were treated badly, they will never forgive and forget."
Ways ...